The first week of January is an interesting, albeit confusing start to the New Year regarding relationships. It is as if you have a secret plan of how you want things to go. Try to maintain a practical mindset and consider that there are other opinions which have to be considered.
You may notice that the things you value in another, especially in a living together situation, aren’t necessarily what ignite your passionate side. For instance you may love to keep a neat and orderly home and love it that your significant other folds their socks just so, but your spirit cries for some kind of disorder to get your heart racing. It’s really just not about the socks. In any case this contradiction within yourself does spark a little soul searching and cause you to make an effort to keep your thoughts and emotions on the same page.
Mid month you may find that you interests are sparked on a particular subject. You will want to read all you can for it seems to hold metaphorical qualities that resonate with your life experience thus far. Your goals and ambitions will be guided from the information and experiences you gain this month. How to progress in your career may also tie in with your new found interests. Careful on the 22nd when the sun squares Jupiter – it is likely your thoughts will run away with you and what practical information you gather this month may be blown away by too much far out daydreaming.
There is more than meets the eye to any relationship issues you have at the start of the month and you will think quite differently about them once the month draws to a close. Several transits occurring from the 23rd until the end of the month advise against trying too hard to change a friend or lover or even co worker. Keep it real as best you can dear Gemini. Real change in yourself and/or others takes time and endless patience.