The more you absorb from this angle, above it or at a somewhat comfortable distance, the deeper your heels will dig Aries. Oddly, obsessing with wide eyes in an attempt separate you from them seems born from an instinct to drum up necessary friction. The decision making process has likely been driving you bonkers and so intense intervention by way of toying with extremes is probably exactly what’s needed to get the fire started. It’s a way to engage in discomforts that come when making real advance. The New Moon on the 18th is, no surprise to you by now, in a transformative zone. Finance, shared resources (debts, credit, lump sums), intimate relationships are an obvious focal point – the testing ground for extremes in search of balance. From my angle it seems you’re more likely grappling with what it takes to feel psychologically and emotionally centered.